What did Paul Newman have in common with kids who have autism?
by Beth
I just read a terrific post on Slate.com about Paul Newman’s Hole in the Wall Gang Camps for kids with serious illnesses.
While the post does not focus on autism per se, it says a lot about what it’s like to be judged “different” from others. It tells of Paul Newman regularly coming to camp to sit down at a lunch table with the campers.
One version of the story has the kid look from the picture of Newman on the Newman’s Own lemonade carton to Newman himself, then back to the carton and back to Newman again before asking, “Are you lost?” Another version: The kid looks steadily at him and demands, “Are you really Paul Human?” Newman loved those stories. He loved to talk about the little kids who had no clue who he was, this friendly old guy who kept showing up at camp to take them fishing.
It had never occurred to me before that superstar Paul Newman had anything in common with kids suffering from serious illnesses, kids on the autism spectrum, people (of all ages!) with disabilities.
It took me years to understand why Newman loved being at the Hole in the Wall Gang Camp. It was for precisely the same reason these kids did. When the campers showed up, they became regular kids, despite the catheters and wheelchairs and prosthetic legs. And when Newman showed up, he was a regular guy with blue eyes, despite the Oscar and the racecars and the burgeoning marinara empire.
Goodness knows kids with autism — and their parents — know what it’s like to be stared at in public for being “different.” I can’t even see them, but I feel it — people often stare at me when I’m out and about with my Seeing Eye dog. I try to hold my head high regardless. Now, feeling this connection to the great Paul Newman, that will be easier to do!